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Oct 11, 2018

Do you have hurts that are holding you back from enjoying life?

4 comments

Edited: Oct 27, 2018

 

All too often we let the past control us. In my healthy tip – Let the Past be in the Past- Learn to Forgive. I provide insight on how to be healed from past hurts. Are you struggling with things from you past that is holding you back from enjoying life? Please share what is hurting you and let’s together see if we can find ways to help you forgive and heal.

Oct 25, 2018

I agree forgiveness is so important to a healthy life. Unfortunately, I struggle with a family member that won't let go of the past. We haven't talked in over 20 years. I have tried to communicate, but they won't reciprocate. They haven't let go of the past and haven't tried to move on and heal. What do you recommend?

Oct 25, 2018

Boy Joy, that is a tough situation. Sorry you have a family member that you aren't able to see and spend time with. My first recommendation is that your keep that person in prayer. Pray for forgiveness and reconciliation. (God's timing is not our timing, but it is perfect timing). Next write out a letter with forgiveness and reconciliation as the theme. Pray over the letter, and then when you believe the timing is right send the letter to that person. Give some time for the person to think about the letter a week or so. Then contact them again to see if they are willing to meet in person. You many want to have other family members there as a support, or even a friend you feel comfortable with and trust. God will heal this relationship in time. I will be praying for you. Please keep me updated. Blessings to You.

Oct 25, 2018

Thank you Nina. I have been praying but will continue to do so. I have a letter drafted, but haven't sent it yet. Can I email you the letter and get your thoughts? I will keep you updated.

My background: I have been a mentor for 20 years to people struggling with work issues, marital concerns, parenting concerns, depression, and general life concerns. I am a great listener and am here for you. You can either post on this site or contact me privately at focusonfreedoms@gmail.com.